How do you say “Thank You”?

How do you say “Thank you” to someone who gave their life for your freedom? How do you do you say “Thank You” to their family who will no longer be able to kiss them goodnight and hug them goodbye? TheyΒ laced up their boots, their dogs tags around their neck, packed their sea bags, checked out their gear, said their last goodbyes and shipped off. Too many of the letters to their loves ones, once tucked away and prayed never having to be hand delivered by someone else, heartrendingly clinched being read with tears. How do you show honor to these men and women who arrivedΒ in battle with their brothers and sisters in Service and returned home in memory?

β€œWe do not know one promise these men made, one pledge they gave, one word they spoke; but we do know they summed up and perfected, by one supreme act, the highest virtues of men and citizens. For love of country they accepted death, and thus resolved all doubts, and made immortal their patriotism and their virtue.”

– James A. Garfield
May 30,Β 1868Β Arlington National Cemetery

As a Marine wife of 20 years each Armed Forces Day, Memorial Day and Veteran’s Day I take these days to heart and thank God that with each deployment my husband has returned home safely. Memorial Day is more than just a 3 day weekend, with trips to the beach and no school, it is a day we stop and say “Thank You.” “Thank You” to the men and women who gave the ultimate sacrifice, their life that day, the life they would have led and the families they left behind. Their memory never fades, their courage never ceases, and their sacrifice is never forgotten. Memorial Day is the day we take a moment to pause and remember the families of those who have fallen in the line of duty. Often times Veteran’s Day and Memorial Day are confused with one another. Veteran’s Day, which is in November, is the day we say “Thank You” to all the men and women who have served, first called Armistice Day. Armed Forces Day is the day we honor all those who are serving now. Armed Forces Day is celebrated on the third Saturday of each May. Memorial Day, the last Monday of each May is the day we remember all the brave men and women who gave the ultimate sacrifice while serving —-Β their lives, so that we can remain in the ‘Land where at least I know I’m FREE’


In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends. Martin Luther King, Jr.


7 thoughts on “How do you say “Thank You”?”

  1. Beautiful Heather!! “Thank you” to your husband for his service and thank you as well … I think often times families of these amazing men & women in our armed forces are dismissed or not truly recognized for all they give as well … with the love and support of the families who stand behind our soldiers, these men and women are able to truly give their all and are blessed to prayerfully return home to the arms of those who love them; those that have made sacrifices to do their best daily to do double duty at times bc their other half is on a deployment or in the field training. Much love and respect to all of our service men and women who protect us while we are living our daily lives or sleeping at night in our comfy beds … and many times without a thought or care in the world bc we know we have someone standing guard to protect our land and Country!!! God bless our selfless servicemen/women & families!!!

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  2. I like your perspective. Thank you for sharing these lovely quotes with such important meaning. Memorial Day is a tough holiday for so many military families, yet it remains an important one. My husband has lost several friends in combat. Each year, as long as they are remembered, we feel that we are honoring them as well. So many people have made such deep sacrifices, and we should all remember that! Thanks again, fellow milspouse!


    1. I am so sorry to read that, losing a fellow brother-in-arms is never anything anyone can be fully prepare or even for fully work through. They become so close, through all they go through just as we military wives develop a bond over all we endure. I appreciate the kind words, I truly wanted to write a post that would help honor the true meaning of Memorial Day and all those that gave their lives. Thank you…

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